The Sussex Family take their name from Haremere Hall in Etchingham where
they were Lords of the Manor. The earliest recorded Harmer is Milo (or
Miles) de HAREMERE at about the end of the 12th century. The derivation of
HAREMERE is obscure, the second part “MERE”, is probably a pool. The first
part might be an Anglo Saxon word meaning “grey”, “old”, or “hoary”; it does
not seem very likely that it means “hare”. The spelling of the name is
recorded in 1395 as HARMERE, (dropping the middle “E”) and finally dropping
the last “E” in 1423 to become HARMER.
Since its formation in 1978 HFA has published two major Sussex trees –
namely Heathfield and Salehurst and many minor trees. Research is
continually in hand to push back the generations and link up the minor trees
wherever possible with the one of the two main trees who it appears from DNA
samples share a common ancestor.
Most Sussex Harmers were agricultural workers, brickmakers, bricklayers and
builders although a large branch of the Heathfield tree moved to various
parts of the UK in the Coastguard Service. A considerable number emigrated
in the 1800s, mainly to America, Australia and Canada. The most well known
Sussex Harmer is
Jonathan
Harmer, 1762 – 1849,
a stone mason, potter and surveyor whose terracotta grave plaques can still
be seen in many East Sussex churchyards.

